|How accurate are College Parties portrayed?|
In movies, and mostly (homemade amateur) porn, theres College (Frat) Parties
Im curious to how accurate these are shown
Normally its just a LOT of drinking and a LOT of public, out in the open, sex, bjs, hjs, kissing, etc.
Im in high school and i dont really believe that when you go to college all the girls turn into whores.
I mean, are college parties really like this? With all that public sex and stufF?
|yeah there is lots and lots of drinking. There is way more provocative dancing and making out in public than at high school parties but public sex is not normal. Many people do end up hooking up but they leave/go into a private room. Lots of times for frat parties, the guys will only let the hot/skankishly dressed girls in, and often those are the type of girls who like that type of party too anyways. The degree of slutiness is higher at those parties than in college in general. Also, often college parties are also just a bunch of mainly guys hanging around getting wasted and playing beer pong. Not particularly exciting.|
|How to get girls to your party?|
So i'm an amateur when it comes to the college partying scene. A friends' birthday's coming up and i'd like to throw a party for him, but i don't know where to start. I'm new to my college town (college station,tx) and don't know many girls. Besides being popular, I'd like to know whats the best way to invite friendly beautiful girls to your party? Any ideas are greatly appreciated!
|Spread the word to the right people, invite gay men (greg-good tip), always talk about it around people in class, and even better yet, if you're not sure how many people are coming post signs around campus and tell people to go if no one is spreading the word.|
(A sign that people are going is that they'll talk to either you or the other people throwing the party or star of the party)
Girls, generally the ones with good social lives go when they hear about a party, and if there are certain girls, just talk to them in a round about way about the party. =]
|Married woman who vents about hubby at work--what do you all think?|
I have a married friend who has been with her husband nearly 20 years. She and her husband both hold professional positions. They seem to have the perfect marriage, perfect guyren and the perfect life—plus, well off financially and everything like that. But I found out recently that is not so true. She has been letting things slip about out at work about her marriage. She and I are both engineers and work in a very small firm. (She and her husband have been together since they were 18 and met in college). Several other people (including myself) have heard her discuss her husband’s love of amateur college porn, strip clubs, and weekend binge drinking with his rowdy friends. She also said that these problems had been going on for a while and that he rarely wants sex with her, but he has a very large porno collection (movies, magazines, etc). Her husband will also tell her that he is tired and that he would prefer if she would do “other stuff” for him. Her husband is overweight and so is she—but he still prefers amateur porn with college girls. I cannot believe that she is letting these details of her personal life out at work—especially because her husband frequently drops by at work to visit her and everyone knows him! She admitted that her husband would be upset with her if he knew about the things that she told people at work about their marriage.
I am just wondering why someone would do something like that? Personally, I wouldn’t talk about my marriage at work—no matter how many problems I was having. He is still her husband and she is betraying their marital trust by involving outsiders, instead of a meeting up with a marriage therapist! I am not defending him or her in this instance. I personally think that her husband is still acting out on his bachelor days gone by and is obviously NOT attracted to her sexually anymore. Why would he rather watch amateur college girls and not have sex with his own wife? I personally think he is probably two seconds away from cheating on her—if he already hasn’t done so. As for her, she really needs to seek therapy herself or get out of the marriage. Bring up their problems at work is really showing a lack of respect towards herself and their (obviously shaky) marriage. I just really feel bad for their 3 guyren.
I am just really tired of hearing her talk about this and can’t really vent too many people. Don’t be afraid to leave some honest feedback on this subject. Thanks!
|It sounds like she doesn't have any friends that she can vent to. So, that's why she tells people at work. She is probably so fed up with her husband and at loss what to do about his behavior. Sounds like to me he is a sex addict and needs help. |
My recommendation is to take her out to lunch one day and tell her that her remarks about her husband is making her look unprofessional in the office. This can cause repercussions down the road for her. Her boss or manager will think if she talks like this about her husband, what is she saying about me as a boss?
|Is amateur porn really all that amateur?|
A gazillion adult sites out there claim to show videos and pics of "real" girls who have never done porn before. I wonder how many of those girls are what they claim to be? Would that many everyday college girls or young professional women - i.e., girls who aren't professional strippers or porn actresses - be inclined to star in a porn movie? I ask that since there is so much staged and truly fake action coming out of the industry that it's hard to know what to believe.
|I think it really depends on the site. amateur may not always refer to girls who haven't done porn. It's usually girls who haven't dont MUCH porn, do things on webcams, or are young college girls. If it's an amateur porn video you're pretty much out of luck unless it's one with a good reputation for being real. However, cams are almost always your best bet.|
|What should I do about this? Saw my niece on an amateur porn site this morning?|
I got up early to workout and was drinking my pre-workout drink and cruisin the net (looking at girl fitness/body builder models) on yahoo video and saw a small clip of a girl that looked like my niece but I never dreamed it was, so I clicked on it and it was def her (She's 19 and lives in another state, she's a freshman in college) with a muscle guy...it was 100% explicit...I followed the link to an amateur girls porn site...she did everything and I have to admit she is super hot....but that's for another story...anyway what should I do? BTW I am married and she is my wife's brothers daughter....so she isn't my blood niece...so should I just keep my mouth shut (I don't want to get her in trouble and I'm not real keen to get myself in trouble either...ya know? But part of me feels like I should tell my wife...any suggestions?
|LOL Doubt your going to tell your wife anything. The simple fact you have pointed out how hot she is, she does everything and she isn't blood to you says all. Get some morals.|
|I saw my niece on an "amateur" porn site this morning...what should I do?|
I got up early to workout and was drinking my pre-workout drink and cruisin the net (looking at girl fitness/body builder models) on yahoo video and saw a small clip of a blonde girl that looked like my niece but I never dreamed it was, so I clicked on it and it was def her (She's 19 and lives in another state, she's a freshman in college) with an older muscle guy (I'd guess he was like 35ish...it was 100% explicit...I followed the link to an amateur girls porn site...she did everything and I have to admit she was super hot (I've always known she had a killer body)....but that's for another story...anyway what should I do? BTW I am married and she is my wife's brother's daughter....so she isn't my blood niece...so should I just keep my mouth shut (I don't want to get her in trouble and I'm not real keen to get myself in trouble either...ya know? But part of me feels like I should tell my wife...any suggestions?
|What your 19 year old niece does is really none of your business. Keep your mouth shut.|
P.S: You could have spared all the bull about the workout drink and body building net surfing, we all know you were just giving yourself a treat watching porn.
|Making amateur porn with my girlfriend? Copyright issues?|
First of all, anyone who has an issue with porn, I don't want to hear about it. We are nice people, so save me the morality lesson and maybe go look for the "log in your own eye."
So, my question: My girlfriend and I have been making amateur porn and posting it to free forums on the internet to get some response. If we want to make our own site someday, how do we prevent people from stealing our movies/pictures and putting them on generic porn sites like "Hot college girls" or whatever. Is putting a copyright notice at the bottom of our webpage enough? Is there anything else we should do to make sure we remain as owners of our own creations?
Thanks in advance everybody!
|as far as i know, once you uploaded a video on a website, there's still a way to grab a copy of it.|
i used to download a different videos on the web and i've got a lot of softwares to download it, either from you tube and on almost known websites.
i think it's impossible to keep your videos not to be grabbed, if you want it that way, then keep it private between the two of you.
|Are women in amateur porn videos, amatuer or are they paid actors?|
This guys was talking about a website that has college girls doing all sorts of stuff in front of people naked with someone filming it and that they are really loose. I said that was doubtful and I'll admit I had a look at this website to see if it was true or not among other things.
After watching it, I realised it was unlikely to be true because a) The vast majority of girls won't stoop so low as to have sex in front of all their friends and other people at a party even if they were hammered. b) The websites they were put on have largely paid actors on them. But the thing that definitely shows its not true was c) the camera used. I'm at college myself and considering the visual quality of the videos, there is no way some college student could afford to buy one that expensive and even if they did, they wouldn't take it to a house party where there's booze
It wants to give off the illusion of "So hot these girls do it because they like it, not for the money" Even girls who were sex addicts wouldnt do the things you said, They'd just meet a guy and let him pump their brains out.
The best youll get is probably ex girl freind sex tapes.
|How to be a happy, single college girl?|
I have decided to get over the man I love. It's not going to happen because I care more about him than he ever will about me. He's a flirt, he's an amateur friend, he's irresponsible, and he doesn't go the distance. And I'm going to be okay. He just really got under my skin.
I just want to know how I can enjoy being single? They say that your love will find you when you stop looking for it. I'm a third year college student, and I want to enjoy my life so I don't feel sad about him, or I don't feel sad about not being loved by a significant other. I'm young. I want to smile and be happy. I want to have fun and enjoy my life. What can I do?
|Gosh i know how this feels, and its not easy. Try to forget him and focus on your studies.. I know its hard but try your best, and may allah guide you in the right path... Amen. =)|
Rmr how you said you talk to allah before you sleep( or make dua) do that, and ask allah to help you cope with this.. =)
|ADULT MOVIE question, why is soo hard to find good movies? (over 21)?|
What happened to all the feature films with big name (and chest) actresses? It seems at the video store is just dime-a-dozen teens in no-plot scenes. The big names (Lisa Lipps, Wendy Whoppers, Angel Bust, Lisa Ann, Rachel Love), are no where to be found. There are no good movies, just compilations of various recycled clips of ugly amateurs, or stupid college girls.
Do you agree?
|There are no longer artists in the industry. Now, everyone wants to show they can also do it... but most are just ugly people with no proper direction. |
Personally, I don't give a dammn of these women looking for a quick buck and 15 minutes of fame. They're not in it for the long-term.
I enjoy soft porn more now, simply because the people in it are way more beautiful.